communication

 What is the basis of communication?

In my opinion, communication is the key to making things work, to discuss and share conflicts, to be able to resolve problems, to make an environment be less inconvenient, to be able to create a conducive and meaningful expectations. Communication, whether verbal or non verbal tells people what we are thinking, feeling and expressing our inner voices. Having an honest and open communication is also the key to a good relationship, whether it's work, marriage or family. When something gets communicated wrongly, others may perceive something else and have a negative effect afterwards. 

Why do some people find communicating a hassle or a problem? When you lack communication, or when something you think is not right, be the better person to say it yourself. It is unethical to tell it to others and expect someone to do your dirty job and let others second guess their actions. I have encountered so many miscommunications throughout my years that actually affect my actions during work, how I feel and how I perceive things. It is without a doubt that poor communication is the main culprit. When something gets out and communicated in the wrong way, we tend to feel negative and unjust. If people are more honest with their opinions and are not afraid to speak their mind, surely problems will be better solved and conflicts will easily be managed. Communication should be refined, how you express and tell others your opinions is a learning curve that has to be reflected again and again. 

Then again, silence sometimes is the best solution and weapon to others.